What do I say?
Tell us what's happening. We'll help you find language for the moment.
You don't need to explain it perfectly. Just tell us what's going on.
“My 15-year-old shuts down every time I ask about school.” · “My 7-year-old says nobody likes her.” · “I yelled this morning and want to repair things.”
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