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Emotional Regulation Plan
Map your child's escalation curve and agree, in advance, what helps at green, amber and red.
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Guide · Emotional regulation
Emotional Regulation Plan
Map your child's escalation curve and agree, in advance, what helps at green, amber and red.
- Ages
- 4–14
- Time
- 20 min
- Access
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Who this is for
Parents living with frequent, fast-moving meltdowns.
How to use it
- 1Print it, or open it on a tablet — it is designed to be written on.
- 2Complete it at a calm moment, never in the middle of a difficult one.
- 3Where a child is involved, invite rather than instruct; their input is the intervention.
- 4Revisit it weekly for a month. Small, repeated use is what changes the pattern.
Therapist note
A worksheet does not fix anything on its own. What helps is the conversation it makes possible — and the fact that you and your child are now looking at the problem together rather than at each other.
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