Parenting Script·Big Feelings
When Your Child Says “I Hate You”
What to say when your child uses the biggest words they have — without withdrawing or arguing back.
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Parenting Script·Big Feelings
When Your Child Is Having a Meltdown
All ages; adapt language for development
Words for the moment everything tips over — when your child is past reasoning and needs fewer demands, not more.
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