Editor's Picks Collection — The Thrive Journal

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Emotional Regulation

17 Emotional Regulation Activities That Actually Work

Not crafts to fill an afternoon. Short, repeatable practices that train a child's nervous system to come back down — and the…

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Family Life

How to Repair After You Lose Your Temper

The rupture is not the thing that shapes a child. What happens in the two hours afterwards is — and most of…

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Emotional Regulation

Tantrums, Meltdowns and Shutdowns: Telling Them Apart

Three states that look similar from across the room and need almost opposite responses from you.

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Parent Self-Care

The Invisible Load of Parenting

The exhausting part was never the tasks. It is being the person who remembers, anticipates and notices — a job with no…

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School Refusal

School Refusal: What Actually Helps When They Cannot Get Through the Door

It is almost never defiance, and it is very rarely about the lessons. A clear-eyed guide to the mornings that stop working…

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Parenting

The Parenting Trends That Worry Therapists

Most of what circulates online is well-meant and half-true. The half that is missing is usually the part that would have protected…

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Digital World

Raised by Algorithms: Children, AI Companions and the New Kind of Friendship

Millions of children now talk daily to something that always answers, never tires, and never disagrees. What that does to a developing…

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A tense child in a kitchen doorway while a parent crouches nearby with an open hand

Anxiety

When Anxiety Shows Up as Anger

The child slamming the door is often the most frightened person in the house. Fear and fury run on the same circuit…

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A parent and teenager walking a dog along a wide, empty beach in soft grey light

Teen Mental Health

How to Talk to Your Teenager So They Talk Back

The conversations that work almost never happen face to face, rarely start with a question, and are usually about something else entirely.

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Executive Functioning

It Is Not Laziness: Understanding the Motivation Myth

The child who cannot start their homework is not choosing comfort over effort. They are stuck at a step no one has…

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Parent Self-Care

When Gentle Parenting Runs Out of Petrol

The backlash is not evidence that warmth failed. It is evidence that a generation of parents was sold the warmth and never…

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Teen Mental Health

Your Teenager Isn't Lazy — They're Overwhelmed

The horizontal teenager on the bedroom floor is rarely refusing to start. They are stuck at the point where the size of…

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Emotional Regulation

Borrowing Calm: How Children Regulate Through Us

Children cannot regulate themselves in a room where no one else is regulated. Co-regulation is the whole mechanism — and it is…

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Digital World

The Phone in the Bedroom: The One Boundary Worth Holding

Of all the decisions families make about technology, where the device sleeps has the largest and most measurable effect on a child's…

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Communication

When Listening Feels Impossible: Cooperation Without Conflict

Your child is not ignoring you. Their hearing is working perfectly — it is the processing underneath it that has run out…

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A teenager sitting on the end of a bed with a parent visible in the hallway light

Teen Mental Health

When Your Teenager Stops Talking to You

Silence at fifteen is rarely rejection. It is a developmental task, a bid for privacy, and sometimes a signal — and it…

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Behaviour

The Truth About Lying: What Children Are Really Protecting

A child who lies is almost never a child with a character problem. They are a child solving a problem — usually…

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An eleven-year-old in school uniform resting their head on their hand at the kitchen table before school

School Refusal

When School Becomes Too Much: Understanding School Refusal

School refusal is almost never about school. It is about a nervous system that has learned mornings are dangerous — and it…

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A row of teenagers standing side by side looking at their phones

Digital World

The Comparison Machine: Social Media and a Teenager's Self-Worth

Adolescence has always involved measuring yourself against other people. What is new is the scale, the precision, and the fact that it…

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Parental Burnout

When the Parent Runs Out: Recovering From Burnout

Parental burnout is not a character flaw or a scheduling problem. It is what happens when the demands stay high for long…

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Family Life

The Longest Hour: Rescuing the School Morning

Nobody is difficult in the morning. Everyone is under-resourced at the same time, in a house designed by no one, against a…

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Sibling Relationships

The Sibling Storm: What Children Learn Inside Everyday Conflict

Siblings do not fight because something has gone wrong with your family. They fight because you have given them the one relationship…

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Two teenagers sitting on a sofa filming themselves on a phone set up on a ring light

Digital World

Growing Up Online: Raising Children in a Digital World

The question is not how many hours. It is what the hours are doing — and whether your child has anywhere to…

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Mental Health

Does My Child Actually Need Therapy?

The honest answer from someone who assesses children for a living — including the times I say no.

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Confidence

The Weight of Being Good: Perfectionism in Quiet Children

The child who never causes trouble, always tries hard and cannot bear to get it wrong is not thriving quietly. Perfectionism is…

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Family Life

The Family Climate: The Emotional Weather Children Grow In

Children do not grow up in a set of parenting techniques. They grow up in a weather system — and the weather…

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Friendships

When It Is Hard to Be a Friend: Helping Children Belong

Friendship is the most complex social task we ask of children, and we mostly leave them to work it out at speed,…

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A teenager sitting in the dark with their face in their hands, lit only by a phone screen

Digital Wellbeing

Cyberbullying: What To Do in the First 48 Hours

Your instinct is to take the phone. Here is why that is the one move that guarantees they stop telling you things.

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Editor's Picks

20 Phrases That Help Children Calm Down

17 Emotional Regulation Activities That Actually Work

How to Repair After You Lose Your Temper

Tantrums, Meltdowns and Shutdowns: Telling Them Apart

The Invisible Load of Parenting

School Refusal: What Actually Helps When They Cannot Get Through the Door

The Parenting Trends That Worry Therapists

Raised by Algorithms: Children, AI Companions and the New Kind of Friendship

When Anxiety Shows Up as Anger

How to Talk to Your Teenager So They Talk Back

It Is Not Laziness: Understanding the Motivation Myth

When Gentle Parenting Runs Out of Petrol

Your Teenager Isn't Lazy — They're Overwhelmed

Borrowing Calm: How Children Regulate Through Us

The Phone in the Bedroom: The One Boundary Worth Holding

When Listening Feels Impossible: Cooperation Without Conflict

When Your Teenager Stops Talking to You

The Truth About Lying: What Children Are Really Protecting

When School Becomes Too Much: Understanding School Refusal

The Comparison Machine: Social Media and a Teenager's Self-Worth

When the Parent Runs Out: Recovering From Burnout

The Longest Hour: Rescuing the School Morning

The Sibling Storm: What Children Learn Inside Everyday Conflict

Growing Up Online: Raising Children in a Digital World

Does My Child Actually Need Therapy?

The Weight of Being Good: Perfectionism in Quiet Children

The Family Climate: The Emotional Weather Children Grow In

When It Is Hard to Be a Friend: Helping Children Belong

Cyberbullying: What To Do in the First 48 Hours

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