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Agreements rather than battles — devices, social media and the family culture around them.

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The Message They Cannot Unread: When Your Teen's Friend Is Struggling

Somewhere in your teenager's phone is a message from a friend who is not okay — and a promise not to tell anyone. This is one of the heaviest things an adolescent carries, and most parents never learn it is there.

Reviewed by Sian TrombleyCanadian Certified Counsellor

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Screens at Bedtime: The Real Cost

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