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A parent sitting alone at night by a window, holding a cup of tea, lost in thought

Your Feelings Matter. Your Child Just Can't Carry Them.

Grief over an imagined future is real and worth honoring. It belongs with a partner, a friend, or a therapist — not with the child who just trusted you with the truth.

Reviewed by Sian TrombleyCanadian Certified Counsellor

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