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Neurodiversity

A strengths-first lens

Sensory profiles, differing nervous systems and accommodations that let a child be themselves at full volume.

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The Ones Who Go Still: When a Child Freezes Instead of Melting Down

A meltdown gets noticed. A child who stops moving, stops answering and stares at the floor usually gets told to hurry up. Freezing is the same stress response wearing quieter clothes.

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